The ‘Time Zone!’

The ‘Time Zone!’

Stay Strong, Your Time Will Come ! 🙂 🙂 🙂

Kenya is 2 hrs ahead of Nigeria, but it does not mean that Nigeria is slow, or that Kenya is fast. Both countries are working based on their own “Time Zone.”

Some one is still single.. Someone got married and ‘waited’ 10 yrs before having a child, there is another who had a baby within a year of marriage.

Someone graduated at the age of 22, yet waited 5 years before securing a good job; and there is another who graduated at 27 and secured employment immediately!

Someone became CEO at 25 and died at 50 while another became a CEO at 50 and lived to 90 years.

Everyone works based on their ‘Time Zone’
People can have things worked out only according to their pace. Work in your “time zone”.

Your Colleagues, friends, younger ones might “seem” to go ahead of you.

Don’t envy them, it’s their ‘Time Zone.’ You are in yours!

Hold on, be strong, and stay true to yourself. All things shall work together for your good. You’re not late … you’re very much On time!


P.S. I came across this beautiful post and thought of sharing this with all you beautiful people 🙂


Love brings peace, not shackles… Then why …?



In our search to fill the void within us, we seem to find fulfillment in relationships that we find ourselves valued in the most. The feeling that someone loves you very much can embrace our hearts unlike any other feeling. Most fulfilling relationships are those in which instead of condemning, you forgive and guide each other, in which you trust that you will be there for each other, no matter what, that you will go to any extent to preserve the beauty of your relationship. You do this because you have invested a lot of time, effort and emotions and you feel worthy of being in the relationship. A relationship based upon kindness, trust, love, patience, respect, care and concern seems to lift up your spirits and fill the void.

But, even such satisfying relationships have limits. We start to depend on the other for our happiness and peace. I don’t think there is anything wrong in wanting to experience as much love as possible, yet, sometimes, we unknowingly monopolize the other to the extent that they have to let go of a lot of things. Sometimes, they don’t let go. At such times, we start feeling hurt, the emptiness creeps in again, and there comes the feeling of unmet needs. I wish there were no limits and that you always felt this joy of being fulfilled, more consistently. But, most times, when the other is absent, you feel less loved. Sure, the other person is the means that you feel valued and loved, but is that the only means? Love is always there, whether someone is there or not. Love brings peace, not shackles. Then why the misery? Why the bottling up of emotions? Why the heartaches? Even the most satisfying relationship does not seem to satisfy us consistently. Why?

Bring yourself to Life!


Sometimes, life is painful and messed up. It gets really complicated at the worst of times. Sometimes you have absolutely no idea where to go or what to do. Lots of times, you just let yourself get lost, dropping into a wide open, huge, dark abyss. But we have to keep trying. We have to push through everything that hurts us, work past all the thoughts and memories that haunt us. Sometimes the things that hurt and haunt us are the things that make us strongest. And that’s why, even when it hurts, never stop yourself from living.

Bring yourself to Life… Bring yourself to Joy… Bring yourself to Love…

Dare to be!


     When a new day begins, dare to smile gratefully.

     When there is darkness, dare to be the first to shine a light.

     When something seems difficult, dare to do it anyway.

     When life seems to beat you down, dare to fight back.

     When there seems to be no hope, dare to find some.

     When you’re feeling tired, dare to keep going.

     When times are tough, dare to be tougher.

     When love hurts you, dare to love again.

     When someone is in pain, dare to help them heal.

     When another is lost, dare to help them find the way.

     When a friend falls, dare to be the first to extend a helping hand.

     When you cross paths with another, dare to make them smile.

     When you feel great, dare to help someone feel great too.

     When the day has ended, dare to feel as you’ve done your best.

     Dare to be the best you can – At all times, Dare to be!

― Steve Maraboli,  Life, the Truth, and Being Free